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Yes, this bring up a lot of good points...

South Korean government started a dating program, I read about a few years ago bc it sees it will have population issues if things don't change. I think this notion of the fertile sexual relationship is on the decline. A lot of women are deciding that they're perfectly happy single, and just from experience and things I've read I'm inclined to think it's bc know women what is out there, and have determined they're better of alone.

Have you read the book "Why Can't We Sleep?" She interviews a bunch of Gen X women and they describe all of the shitty things they have to put up with from husbands (threatening divorce if she doesn't participate in sexual things she doesn't want to do, or left caring for the new girl friend's cats while her kids celebrate Christmas at the new girlfriend's family). Idk.

I guess there's the men's point of view, too. That movie Joker hit a nerve, people apparently thought was about men who were going their own way or whatever.

Not sure if the cause of this phenomenon is the same as that in the mice experiment....

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