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BlueSphinx's avatar

From what you wrote, it is clear for me that it is useless to keep on trying to get your husband into the US by following the legal process. Due to the ridiculous waiting times of months-years to process the application, by the time it gets approved the process will have changed again requiring new documents (as you already found out).

The only viable options are a job assignment at a Hospital for Ka (good luck with that one...), but I think you might forget about that one as he does not have any of the right qualifications for such an assignment.

That leaves the Mexican option. Sounds feasible for me: just get a Tourist Visa for Mexico for Ka, and once in Mexico have him cross the southern border. Of course, there is little chance of him becoming 'legal' after doing that, but it would just be a way of letting him make acquaintance with the USA and your family. I doubt that he will be enthusiastic to stay there, as you can take a Thai out of Thailand but you cannot take Thailand out of a Thai.

My conclusion: Better to stop chasing an 'impossible dream' . Especially since it would be far easier if you just came back to Thailand and live your life here with Ka. And once the whole disfunctional US Immigration system has collapsed (which will happen eventually), then you can consider a joint trip to your roots.

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TFish's avatar

The bureaucracy is no longer just a time sink—its hemorrhaging our wallets too (amongst other things). The energy drain on you and your family must be beyond frustrating, especially given the inability to get timely response or actually speak to a person on a matter of such personal legal importance. Brings to mind the tale of Mehran Karimi Nasseri who floated in legal limbo for nearly 2 decades.

And to think they claim to have no funding to assist US citizens, all the while funneling hundreds of billions to the MIIC for chicanery abroad. All of the systems are beyond broken. It’s beyond corrupted. The dysfunction is so entrenched. Any talk about restructuring and reform is a bad joke.

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